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We’ve all heard that comparison is the thief of joy and I believe we can all humbly admit that there are areas in our lives where this thief seems to hit the jackpot. To be transparent with you guys, one of these areas for me is my photography. I’ll start that mindless scroll through Instagram or Pinterest and as I’m looking at all the beautiful photos these other talented photogs have taken, I start feeling more like a faux-tographer.

I have to remind myself to consider the variables – The equipment, the shooting style, the years of experience.

Then I have to remind myself that not only am I growing every day, but I am just as real, just as valid, and just as talented as they are. My talent simply looks different from theirs and ya know what? That’s perfectly okay.

Two good chefs don’t have the same tasting food, two good singers don’t sound the same, and two good photographers don’t take the same photograph. If this is something you struggle with too, and I’m thinking it is since you clicked on this post, apply the above to whatever area you’re feeling this need to compare. Just because your style is different or you’re in a different season doesn’t mean you’re not talented. In fact, I encourage you to be different! Do not force your talent to be identical to someone else’s. We all have something unique to bring to the table – And that table? It’s big enough for everyone to have a seat.

I’m taking a stance right now and I’m putting my foot down. Comparison is beneath me and it’s beneath you too. This thief has stolen enough of our joy so it’s time to say “No more!”. Who is with me?!

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